If you’re feeling like you just can’t seem to keep your house clean, you’re not alone. Maybe the pile of dishes feels never-ending. Maybe the laundry mountain just won’t shrink. Or maybe you’ve tried to do it all but still feel like you’re falling short.
I get it—being a homemaker is one of the most rewarding yet challenging jobs out there. You’re balancing so much, and yet it’s easy to feel like it’s never enough. But here’s the truth you may not hear often enough—you’re doing better than you think.
Today, I want to share some encouragement, practical tips, and a little sprinkle of motivation to help you break free from the pressure of feeling behind.
Feeling Behind Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing
When your house isn’t as tidy as you’d like, it’s easy to spiral into thoughts like, “Why can’t I keep up?” or “What’s wrong with me?” But that inner critic isn’t giving you the full picture.
Here’s one thing you need to remember—you’re not failing; life is just busy. You’re cooking, cleaning, caring for your family, and putting so much love into your home every single day. That matters more than the spotless counters or perfectly folded towels.
A friend once reminded me when I was feeling this way, “Girl, you have done SO much! Stop beating yourself up.” And she was right—those small, daily efforts that I didn’t even notice were adding up in ways I couldn’t see.
If you’ve made dinner, comforted a child, or simply shown up even when you were exhausted, you’re doing more than enough.
Why Homemaking Is About More Than Clean Floors
Homemaking isn’t about having the perfect house; it’s about showing up for the people you love. It’s about creating a space that feels safe, loved, and cared for. And here’s the thing—you’re irreplaceable in your home.
The fact that you even care about trying to do better says so much about the incredible person you are. Caring enough to put effort into your home (even on the messiest days) is what makes the biggest difference in the long run.
Before we go further, I want you to do something for me. Take a deep breath and give yourself credit. Recognize the love and care you’re already pouring into your family, no matter what your house looks like right now.
Practical Ways to Feel More in Control
If the mess feels like it’s taking over and you don’t know where to start, these simple tips can help you manage the overwhelm and start feeling back on top of things—one step at a time.
1. Start Small
The key to making a clean house feel achievable is to focus on one small task at a time. Instead of trying to tackle everything all at once, pick one area to start with. Maybe it’s just loading the dishwasher or clearing off one countertop.
Building momentum with small wins helps the bigger tasks feel less daunting.
2. Use the Power of Routines
Cleaning doesn’t have to be an all-day event—it can be something you sprinkle into your day. Routines like a quick morning tidy-up or a “10-minute pick-up” before bed can make a world of difference. These little habits add up, and over time, they’ll keep your home feeling more manageable.
3. Reframe Your Mindset
Instead of worrying about achieving perfection (spoiler alert—it doesn’t exist), aim for progress. Did you get a few loads of laundry done today? Success. Did you sweep the floors? Amazing. Every small effort counts.
Motivation Hack – Try this Free Podcast Cleaning Routine!
One reason cleaning can feel overwhelming is that it’s often boring. That’s where a fresh approach can help. Enter my 1950s-inspired podcast cleaning routines!
These routines are a game-changer because they take the guesswork out of cleaning and turn it into a fun, nostalgic experience. Imagine being transported back to the golden age of radio while you tidy up. With classic shows like Dragnet, Suspense, or Lux Radio Theater playing in the background, you’ll feel inspired, entertained, and productive all at once.
Sarah’s Experience
One of my listeners, Sarah, tried the routines and shared this amazing review:
“I started your free episode today and I wanted to cry—it was so amazing. It takes all the thinking away. I can just hit play and do it. Incredible. This is a game-changer. Thank you!” x
I get chills every time I read her words because I know how overwhelming housework can feel—and I know how much of a difference these routines can make.
The best part? You don’t have to take my word for it. I’ve got free episodes you can try to see just how much easier (and more fun) homemaking can be. (Click here to get those!)
Give Yourself Grace
Here’s the most important thing I want you to take away from this post—show yourself some grace. A messy house doesn’t mean you’re failing; it means you’re human. Life is messy, especially when you have a family.
Instead of focusing on what isn’t done, focus on what you’re already doing—loving your family, showing up each day, and trying your best. That’s what truly matters.
If you’re ready to bring a little joy and nostalgia back into your cleaning routine, give those 1950s-inspired episodes a try. Who knows? You might just find cleaning to be something you actually look forward to.
You’re Doing Amazing
At the end of the day, homemaking is about love—imperfect, messy, tired, wonderful love. Don’t forget that. Yes, the floors might not always shine, and laundry piles will come and go, but the memories you’re making and the care you’re giving are the things your family will cherish most.
You’re doing amazing, cleaning bestie. Keep showing up. Keep taking it one step at a time. And remember, I’m here rooting for you every step of the way. 💖
Your Turn
Have you tried the 1950s radio show cleaning routines yet? Or do you have a favorite cleaning tip that helps you feel more in control? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Keep being incredible—you’ve got this!