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Ever wondered what it took to be the “perfect” homemaker in the 1950s? Girl, same. According to The Art of Homemaking<\/em> by Daryl V. Hoole, the ideal homemaker was as “multifaceted as a diamond”, with 20 distinct qualities that made her shine in her role. While some of the ideas may feel just a tad dated, many of these principles remain timeless and hold these little nuggets of wisdom that I totally believe we modern-day homemakers can adapt to fit our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SO, today I’m doing a deep-dive into these 20 facets! Grab your favorite coffee or tea, and let’s get into it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Homemaking, Then and Now<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Homemaking for 1950s housewives was more than a role; it was an art form, and a profession. No seriously, it was very much viewed and treated as a vocation with training and respect given to it. It called for devotion, skill, and effort. For many women at the time, it was a full-time job. Daryl started out her book with this…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“Grandmother, on a winter’s day, milked the cows and fed them hay, slopped the hogs, saddled the mule, then got the children off to school, did a washing, mopped the floors, washed the windows, and did some chores; cooked a dish of home-dried fruit, pressed her husband’s Sunday suit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Swept the parlor, made the bed, baked a dozen loaves of bread, split some firewood, and then lugged in enough to fill the kitchen bin; cleaned the lamps and put in oil, stewed some apples she thought would spoil; churned the butter, baked a cake, then ex-claimed, “For heaven’s sake, the calves have got out of the pen!” – went out and chased them in again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gathered the eggs and locked the stable, back to the house and set the table, cooked a supper that was delicious, and afterward washed up all the dishes, fed the cat and sprinkled the clothes, mended a basketful of hose; then opened the organ and began to play, “When You Come to the End of a Perfect Day.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Author Unknown<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

This grandmother knew the art of homemaking! Although today the demands and activities of a homemaker have changed somewhat, the abilities and attitudes required have remained the same. We modern homemakers want to be like this grandmother, able to perform each day the tasks required of us and feel happy about doing so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course it is normal for every homemaker to have bad days when little is accomplished and when she doesn’t feel like it has been a perfect day at all. In fact, at times she might be completely discouraged and depressed with her role in life. It is the purpose of this book to help you with those bad days”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While we aren\u2019t wrangling livestock these days, homemaking is no less important. The principles behind the work, like creating an intentional home and cultivating joy, haven\u2019t changed. With that said, let’s take a closer look at the qualities of an ideal homemaker, according to Mrs. Hoole!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The 20 Facets of the Ideal Homemaker<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

1. Be Lovely Inside and Out<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShe is lovely to look at and lovely to be around. She has a wholesome attitude and a pleasing appearance.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This facet emphasizes maintaining a positive attitude and a presentable appearance. While the wording might feel outdated (being “lovely to look at” makes some of us feel defensive AF for some reason these days), the message behind it is still relevant today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we take care of ourselves inside and out, we\u2019re able to show up for our families with kindness and grace. Personally, I have a few hacks for this to help me feel beautiful when homemaking! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Overnight Curlers.<\/strong> (I use this one).<\/a> Putting my hair in curlers before bed, and waking up to beautiful hair is such a confidence booster for me! And it makes me feel so much prettier and happier throughout my day, which actually makes me more patient with my family! Some days I’ll just leave my hair in the curler so it’s out of my face, and then take it down right before leaving the house or my husband coming home. (Whichever happens first)<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. A Mom Uniform. <\/strong>Whether it’s cute active dresses, overalls with cute tops, or jeans and a cute blouse or sweater (I’ve even worn scrubs as my mom uniform before!) having a mom uniform you feel confident in makes all the difference. 1950s housewives had what were called “house dresses” they were comfortable dresses with pockets made from lightweight fabric. You can find some of my fave sewing patterns for these here, and here! But I also included a video below of a house dress. <\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Light Makeup. <\/strong>Using a tinted moisturizer, a swipe of mascara, and a lipstick that can double as blush is all I need to feel so much better during the day! And it only takes 5 minutes!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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